Matchmaking made in Heaven

 

 

If you are someone who values their time doing things other than scrolling through dating apps, then continue reading because I have a better solution for you. 

Irrespective of how you sexually identify yourself, whether you’re monogamous or polyamorous, whether you have failed many relationships or not, we all have the right to feel secure and safe with the person we love. That is our God-given right. 

No one needs to suffer from loneliness. Loneliness in the 21st century is like starvation in the 21st century; it is completely UNNECESSARY. We simply have allotted and dispersed the resources in an irresponsible and inhumane way.

 

But I am here to change that for you. 

After over 25 years of being a therapist, nothing makes me more sad than feeling the pain that others feel when they are lonely. And many feel extremely lonely within their relationships, which is possibly even a worst-case scenario. 

I am not in the business of matching you with someone who only sets off chemistry like no other…

You don’t need to be an electrician to understand that sparks are impermanent. Sparks fizzle out after some time. For some, it might be months; for others, it can be 1 to 2 years.

As a psychotherapist and functional medicine practitioner who has studied the brain, brain behaviour, and nervous system, I know what neurotransmitters are involved in life-long happiness and what neurotransmitters are involved in the ‘spark’, the ‘lust’, and the physical/visual attraction. 

These neurotransmitters involved in the spark are dopamine, adrenaline, and norepinephrine. They rise and fall just like the tide, just like the cocaine, kindling, and sugar fixes. When it’s up, it’s pure ecstasy and warming, but you feel incredibly depleted, cold, and empty when it ends. 

We cannot solely rely on the spark to determine the quality of a relationship. We want a slow-burning log whose embers last well into a lifetime. When we meet our match, we want it to feel like ‘coming home’. 

After hearing the stories of my single clients and witnessing couples breaking down in my therapy room, I know how difficult relationships can be. I know how many women feel trapped in their relationships but are terrified to break free once and for all. I hear terrible stories from single clients who have been ghosted on dating apps. Poof! Just like magic, they disappear. You are chatting for one hour one day, and then the next day, they are nowhere to be found. I also listen to the men whose self-esteem is not where it should be and who are terrified by another rejection. 

I have heard it all. 

This doesn’t need to be your story anymore. The time has come for your behaviour to change and, thus, your relationship reality. I know the narratives in your mind are playing on repeat, and it’s time to end it. 

If you would like to be added to a list of single people looking for their match:

Let’s fire up the engines and drive you closer to the One Right Now.

All you need to do now is trust me and trust the process. I guarantee to bring you closer to your match made in heaven. To begin the process, fill out this short form so we can get the ‘party’ started. 

Apply now and I will see you on the other side of loneliness.